His Secret Obsession Review 2021
It's strange, but true, that we can even find ourselves rooting for thieves and criminals so long as we see their story unfolds. Movies like Ocean's Eleven and The Italian Job illustrate this well.
In the movie, Ocean's Eleven, actors George Clooney, Brad Pitt, and Matt
Damon makes for a cast of likable thieves. But beyond their good looks, we get pulled into the story. We discover what's driving Danny Ocean's motivation to rob a casino. A casino that just happens to be owned by his ex-wife's new lover.
We can empathize with Danny Ocean's pain. And by the end of the movie, we are actually rooting for him to get away with it. To steal the money and disappear into the sunset with his ex-wife, Tess, by his side.
Perhaps stranger still is the way we respond to fiction in the first place. A skilled novelist can have me on the edge of my seat, rooting for a person who doesn't even exist in real life.
Literary critics may scoff, but I actually liked the twilight series by Stephanie
Meyer. I think my hand was actually trembling from adrenaline as the Volturi began
to march across the field, intent on destroying Isabella's daughter.
But wait, that's all make-believe. So how could it cause a physical reaction in my
body? The answer, of course, is the power of the story.
Since ancient times, stories have been the primary means by which
humans communicated important information. Because of that, our minds
are literally wired for story.
Stories influence our emotions. They are at the heart of communication.
Allowing us to feel connected to each other.
When I reach the end of my life, I know which people I will want by my side. It
will be those who have witnessed my life story.
The friendly, pretty nurse may be a wonderful person. But if she is a stranger to me,
it doesn't matter what positive attributes she has. I will still feel alone. Because she
does not know my story, and I do not know hers.
Knowing this instinctively, she will expend great effort to quickly summon my friends
and family. The people who know my story.
To trigger a man's deepest feelings of attraction, you need to become a special part
of his story. You do that by revealing your needs and allowing him to help you meet
them. Why? Because it triggers his hero instinct.
His Secret Obsession Review 2021
Here's the formula for triggering a man's hero instinct:
Story + Need = Activated Hero Instinct.
A man's hero instinct compels him to seek a relationship that lets him take on the
role of a provider. That's why guys fall for a woman who knows how to trigger this attraction tripwire. It sets off a series of reactions in his emotional world. It makes
him happy in a way that's hard for women to understand. Because they do not share
his deeply rooted instinct to become someone's hero.
Many women are vaguely aware of a man's desire to see himself as a provider. They
understand, for example, why he may become depressed and pull away from others
during a period of unemployment.
But these same women fail to recognize the power of the opposite effect…
Make a man feel like your hero, and you unleash his desire to commit to
something more. He can't help it. He just starts to see you differently.
It's as if your relationship unlocks a
version of himself he has always longed for. It feels right in a way he can't put into words.
It unleashes his protective instincts,
the noble aspects of his masculinity, and most importantly, his deepest feelings of love and attraction.
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